peace on you
sorry I'm late to comment on your experience with the so called "chat love stories".
I first must admit that you have the courage to share us your story and I'm glad you put an end to this kind relationships coz they are not realistic and most of them are for just passing time.
it's always the same story when a man meets a woman in the net, first it begins with just looking for fun and enjoyment, and then goes forward to become attraction and admiration and finally separation. it hurts, doesn't it? what if we add Allah's anger?? since as know,most of such relationships are for wasting time and effort plus deceiving people by telling them a dozens of lies, which go against our islamic background that exalts the value of time and effort and teach us to not spend them in vain and the most important to be honest with people, so I think it better to keep ourselves as far away as we can from involving in that.
Thanks for sharing us your experience and I hope others will benefit and become aware of the hidden negative aspects of such relationships.