hi zineb, first of all, never care about others' replies, what's important for you is to make people know what's in your mind.
well, about your story i think it's very normal what happened with you, alot of guys do what that one did, to find a girl to talk to, if you ask me those kind of relationships are not trusty, all we need someone to complain to, all we need someone to share our thoughts and feelings with, i may do that with a girl but i always respect myself and im aware of the red lines that i must not cross, you're a girl, you're a pearl, so don't be easy to be got, and never feel comfortable because of some sweet words, iam a man and i know that girls like those sweet words and that's the weapon of all men, we know that you're hearts are your weaknesses so be careful. for this kind of men these relationships are...i dont know..something funny to spend good time, but for most of girls the matter takes a serious way. so be careful again it's games no more.
so, what i want to say to you is that, despite that i dont know the whole story but i never support such relationships that come through the net, there're many games there, in addition, how can you trust someone you dont know the truth about them, for me, i will never count on the net in building my own life and future and i suppose you understand me.
i vote for "a relationship with red lines" although i know that a relationship between a man and a woman can't never remains as friendship, sooner or later, it evolves to something else and i suppose you know what
thank you for sharing