my tears

doria 21 · 2012-04-05, 20:16

plz plz someone tell me what i have to do.. .... i love someone and he dont tell me that he love me at all i'm going to die plz help me urgently ::confused :

maymay · 2012-04-06, 11:32

..Maybe my words are a little tough but i want you too read every single one of them

Here's what you should do...

You should COMPLETELY forget about him and not think about him at all and get him out of your mind and NEVER EVER do this again because at your age,love doesn't exist,what you are experiencing is some feelings related to your adolescence that has no relation with true love...I mean,common...you r 17 for god's sake!!,,how can you even tell that you love someone???ya sidi let's suppose you do love him,,and he does love you..and then what???you'll be his girlfriend and you'll keep talking to him on the phone without your parents'knowlege?or you'll walk the streets together so everybody seeing you think that your not a "GOOD" girl??perhaps you have the idea that you'll grow up together and get married and live happily ever after...well honey,such stuff dont exist in or community,you'll only be looking for bad reputation among people,and losing the trust your parents gave you,and let's not forget that you'll be braking the rules of our dear religion..maybe you r thinking:what the heck is this girl saying??but believe me honey,you are only ruining your heart,torturing it causing your self pain you don't need,and take it from me,when true love comes at the right time,and with the right ways,it will make you the happiest person on earth,and you will remember my words and think how naive you were and probably laugh at your self...and if you ever need any thing,i'll be here... SALAM]

doria 21 · 2012-04-06, 12:44

:'(thank you very much my dear*maymay* your word are very convenient inshallah i will forget him soon but i know that i will be like breathless heart now i'm far i'm not with him but if i saw him what i do..........:'(

hind 306 · 2012-04-06, 14:16

hi how are you?
i don t know what shall i say to you
but i think that the speech of our sister maymay is true
more over i don t have experience in those things but it s just an opinion
and bear in mind that no one deserves you precious tears
good luck

maymay · 2012-04-06, 15:34

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:'(thank you very much my dear*maymay* your word are very convenient inshallah i will forget him soon but i know that i will be like breathless heart now i'm far i'm not with him but if i saw him what i do..........:'(

See honey,it won't be easy,and you need to strongly believe that this is the right thing to do,you must first sit with your self,think what made you feel like this,for example,maybe you like him because he's handsome or because he's funny or or ...say,do i really wanna make my self suffer and cry because that person is handsome or funny or whatever you like in hi???is it worthy??heck no,no one on this earth deserves your tear..and plus,how do you think this person is feeling now while you are living this pain??? I bet he has no clue and doesnt even care!!!!so you should give your self reasons that you should forget him cause that's the right thing to do...n when you see him,it's like you saw any random person,dont think about him,and dont give it more than it really deserves..he's just another person in this world n im not gonna think abt him..and most impotent thing,never regret what you'r doing and never say:but maybe he will love me or something like that...you will loose every thing you've done..
That's all i could think about right now,and if you need any help,im here for you.. , TAKE CARE HONEY..

doria 21 · 2012-04-06, 15:56

thank you friends i realy love you from my heart

doria 21 · 2012-04-06, 16:25

thank you maymay you make me cry but your words wake me up so 10x i wish to be you best friend if you want babe

maymay · 2012-04-06, 16:30

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thank you maymay you make me cry but your words wake me up so 10x i wish to be you best friend if you want babe

Well honey,that's what i want you to do,i want you to wake up and see clearly..and you're welcome to be my friend i don't know why i liked you even before i started talking to you...