most of people cannot destinguish true love or romance from sexual desir or physical attraction, they think wrongly that all are alike and all are the same, and go till the point to say can I be in love with two ppl at the same time !!!! come on it is just stupid to say that, you can have physical attraction with all the women or all the man living on this earth, but when it comes to true love there are only one place in your heart for the opposite sex, so to avoid confusion you should have a clear idea about what is love, love isn't simple to define, but John gray give us a great definition, he says that we can't talk about true love if we aren't living at least Three level of chemistery from the four one
so we have the physical chemistery which is the most common in relashionship
then the emotional chemistery which is a sort of tenderness and pleasure toward the other side
after that there are the moral chemistery wich is a kind of complicity in values and principles
and finaly it comes the intelectual chemistery
wich means that lovers has same thoughts or have a good interaction between their ideas