In love again....!!! but i love her..

WALIDhiphop · 2008-09-07, 16:46

She was my best friend..but after a 2 months i conffessed to her...that i love her and i dont want to us to stay just friends..i fell in love with her...but she told me no..she said that love is like friendship..theres no diffirence...we kept it that way a2 years and im hiding my love to her...than i told her i cant do it any more..i love you..she said...thats it ..i cant take it any more...goodbye...it has been 4 months now...but.......im......in love again.....with her.....what i got to do....should i tell her...or no...i love her to the death...and i know that she loves me and misses me...help me guys....i love her.

WALIDhiphop · 2008-09-08, 20:42

any one..? at least leave a word...

أم بدر الدين · 2008-09-08, 21:51

OK but don't you know that such love doesn't work with us as Muslims...If you can marry her don't hesitate but don't do things that guide you to something wrong
Imagine that your sister is in the same situation,do you accept this ? 0
i don't advice any one to make any relation and this love will disappear esp if you are a teenager

Mohamed · 2008-09-08, 22:25

Peace be upon you

I do agree with Malika; if you love her just try to do something good: try to study and work hard, to get a good situation... only in this way you can ask her to marry you, show her that you love her indeed.. but I you continue drowning in her love, imagination, and regret, you will do nothing but fail in your studies or job and your life in general.. believe me brother love is just a thing we build with our own imagination; we imagine that life is impossible without that person, but in fact love is something we can find everywhere, we just need to be sincere; where there's virtue there's love.. wish you all the best my brother

WALIDhiphop · 2008-09-08, 23:06

thanks guys ...that means a lot to me...thank you again...

أم بدر الدين · 2008-09-08, 23:30

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المشاركة الأصلية كتبت بواسطة Mohamed

Peace be upon you

I do agree with Malika; if you love her just try to do something good: try to study and work hard, to get a good situation... only in this way you can ask her to marry you, show her that you love her indeed.. but I you continue drowning in her love, imagination, and regret, you will do nothing but fail in your studies or job and your life in general.. believe me brother love is just a thing we build with our own imagination; we imagine that life is impossible without that person, but in fact love is something we can find everywhere, we just need to be sincere; where there's virtue there's love.. wish you all the best my brother

Peace be upon you

May ALLAH guide you to the right way;your words are perfect indeed;thank you too much for sharing the same opinion

conqueror · 2008-09-10, 11:52

Hi, be sure that if u love her seriously you can be patient ... and if she is your destiny, nothing else can move her away from you ... at one condition Honesty everytime. ...