ماذا طلبت في اول ليلة من زواجها ؟

السمروني · 2009-01-26, 18:31

السلام عليكم نقلت لكم هذه القصة للإعتبار
يحدثني أحد الأخوة من طلب العلم يقول : كان لدي مجموعة من الأخوات الكريمات .. أقوم بتدريسهن بعض المتون العلمية في مركز من المراكز النسائية ..

يقول : أقدم أحد الشباب الأخيار لخطبة واحدة منهن .. وفي ليلة زواجها .. بل وبعد صلاة العشاء .. وبينما أنا في مكتبتي .. وإذا بها تتصل علي .. فقلت في نفسي : خيرا إن شاء الله تعالى ..

وإذا بها تسأل عن حديث النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم الذي رواه أبو هريرة أن النبي عليه الصلاة والسلام قال " رحم الله رجلاً قام من الليل فصلّى فأيقظ امرأته فإن أبى نضح في وجهها الماء ورحم الله امرأة قامت من الليل فصلّت فأيقظت زوجها فإن أبى نضحت في وجهه الماء " ..

أتدرون لماذا تسأل ؟ .. هي تسأل هل من المستحسن أن أقوم بأمر زوجي بصلاة الليل ولو كانت أول ليلة معه ..
يقول هذا الأخ : فأجبتها بما فتح الله علي ..
فقلت في نفسي : سبحان الله تسأل عن قيام الليل في هذه الليلة وعن إيقاظ زوجها ..

ومن رجالنا من لا يشهد صلاة الفجر في ليلة الزفاف ! ..

ولا أملك والله دمعة سقطت من عيني فرحاً بهذا الموقف الذي إذا دلّ على شيء فإنما يدل على الخير المؤصل في أعماق نسائنا ..
حتى يقول : كنت أظن أن النساء جميعاً همهن في تلك الليلة زينتهن ولا غير ..

وأحمد الله تعالى أن الله خيّب ظني في ذلك وأراني في أمتي من نساءنا من همتها في الخير عالية ..

منقول
العبد الضعيف السمروني

متواضع لله · 2009-01-26, 19:43

جزاك الله ألف خير اخي في الله ، واصل تميزك

بقداد · 2009-01-26, 20:00

جزاك الله خيرا

سفير توات · 2009-01-29, 22:01

جزاك الله كل خير

Loruoo22 · 2009-02-09, 20:27

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nasma belle · 2009-02-11, 17:42

شكرا لك
لا اجد الكلمات التي اعبر بها عن مدى اعجابي بهذه الفتة واكثر الله من امثالها

SALIRAGGEB · 2009-04-23, 19:36

بارك الله فيك وجزاك كل خير

فضيلة و سُنسُن · 2009-04-23, 20:35

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the winning side - what is that exactly? To me, it is taking the appropriate courses of action (or inaction, as the case may be) to ensure we are affiliated with successful people and successful groups. One of the things i’ve learned over the past year is that if you want to be successful, wow gold you must be associated with successful people.how did i learn this? The hard way, of course. Over the past 7 years i’ve had to do a lot of networking, both socially and in business. In fact, when i first moved to arizona in 2002, i didn’t know a soul (except for a few relatives). By identifying successful people and attempting to network with them, i began to meet successful people in arizona. In other words, i identified the side i needed to be on and then joined it. That is how i became successful in arizona.wow goldover the past year, i have expanded my network even more. I realized that if i only associated with people in arizona, i was cutting myself off from the rest of the country and the rest of the world. After much thought, i did a nationwide driving tour. In a 2 month time period, i visited over 30 states, spoke with over 80 highly successful people and drove 10,292 miles. Since that time, i’ve written a book about the journey and the people (which should be out in the next few months) and expanded my network. All this started by me identifying the winning side and then taking my stand there.maple story powerlevelinghow you can learn to be on the winning sideprobably the best way to make sure you’re on the winning side most of the time is to develop the ability to identify the right people and observe them. Watch their actions and learn from them.maple story powerlevelingas you observe their actions and learn from them, you are positioning yourself to take advantage of the three best ways to affiliate yourself with the winning side. Those three ways are:maple story powerlevelingbeing lucky; doing whatever it takes to make sure your side wins; and predicting the future course of actions, and using your foreknowledge to predict which side is the appropriate one for you to join. Which do i prefer?

are you sure you are in the right place, because what you just said has nothing to do with what is written here
good luck getting back on track