Hillin
dear sister
u just answer urself
u can't tell ur parents coz u respect em u respect ur father tht u can't tell him such a thing
which means tht this kind of things wasn't in out society b4 this is not our tradition
wht proves tht it's not a good things
and search about tht
i'm here only to give u an advice coz I c tht this wrong
but the choice back to u
everyone of us is responsable of his or herself
and thank you sister