I do agree with you. All love before the marriage is an illusion quickly will fade either by realising that:
* Your dream guy is not really hosting an e-q-u-i-valent amount of love for you.
* Your dream guy was pretending and thus doesn’t deserve an inch of your love.
Or your dream guy does not plan for a marriage yet
Love as sweet as it can be, sometimes brings grief and pain if not placed on the right person.
My always advice to sisters is not to mimic the films, the reality is something else.
Good luck and may Allah protect all of you from the human wolves, wa Eidkum mabruk d’avance.
Cheers.