Confession and advice

[CANIM]

I have come across this game on another forum
nothing hard everything is simple
someone makes a confession about a bad habit or a bad event
then the one who comes after solely advise him to correct that habit or fact

[CANIM]

I get started ok !!! I have a bad habit ... I am lazy , there are days where I do nothing totaly nothing!!!! it happened to me especialy when I feel upset or feel that I didn't find my way yet in this life

[yakumo]

Well, be wise enough to decide what goal you gonna take in this life & what path shoulda be walked on, ..So that, you'll not stumble..& try strongly to leave out all the stuff that makes u upset,,cuz it'll hide a better opportunity in front v u..this's what can I say 4 all
Now, my bad habit is that I used to be lonely..In other word, am not 'SOCIAL' at all..it seems I never leave footprints in people 'round me!!I :)
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Keep going
Peace

[SMASH]

! don't be sensitive don't be too seriouse just be funny and positive

my bad habit is that I call names toooooooo much, it is out of controlllll

[CANIM]

Well, be wise enough to decide what goal you gonna take in this life & what path shoulda be walked on, ..So that, you'll not stumble..& try strongly to leave out all the stuff that makes u upset,,cuz it'll hide a better opportunity in front v u..this's what can I say 4 all
Now, my bad habit is that I used to be lonely..In other word, am not 'SOCIAL' at all..it seems I never leave footprints in people 'round me!!I :)
Thnxx 4 the Nice Idea of an Efficient Topic
Keep going
Peace

you aren't lonely is just a feeling open your eyes well and see all those people around you if you smile to them and say nice things you will get millions of smiles and million of kind words back, people who judge theirselves as non sociable are making a big mistake, when you think you aren't sociable you will act and feel like you realy aren't sociable, and your actions and feeling will be transmitted to other people through your eyes and your body, so people will understand how do you judge yourself and get non interest on you, too simply because you aren't thinking positive about yourself, instead you can say I missed something that I should learn to make friends and be more popular, there is many ways to increase your sociability, the best one I know is to open your heart to people , to accept them as they are, to learn how friendship works and how improve it with time, don't be perfectionist ; see how life it is and don't expect that life will be like you think it should be
:)

[CANIM]

! don't be sensitive don't be too seriouse just be funny and positive

my bad habit is that I call names toooooooo much, it is out of controlllll


my young brother when he was 6 to 7 years old was repeating any bad word he heard in the neighbourhood so my mother annoyed by all the shame he was causing all the time took a hot pepper and brushed his mouth with !!!!

[CANIM]

I have another problem I want to fix

most of my friends are boys ! why i can't be friend with girls ?

[Sadinne]

Being friends with girls isn't as hard as it might seem to you, you should just take a step forward and try to talk to them, joke with them...They also might seem arrogant at first, but once you'll get to know them, you'll realize they're not so bad

Although, you should keep in mind that girls will definitely not be the same kind of friends as guys, boys are straight forward, if he doesn't like you, he won't talk to you, and if he does, he won't talk ABOUT you in your back, most of the girls will call you names when you're not here, and kiss you and hug you once you arrive...You need to get used to that xD

[CANIM]

Being friends with girls isn't as hard as it might seem to you, you should just take a step forward and try to talk to them, joke with them...They also might seem arrogant at first, but once you'll get to know them, you'll realize they're not so bad

Although, you should keep in mind that girls will definitely not be the same kind of friends as guys, boys are straight forward, if he doesn't like you, he won't talk to you, and if he does, he won't talk ABOUT you in your back, most of the girls will call you names when you're not here, and kiss you and hug you once you arrive...You need to get used to that xD



yes that what I like in boys and friendship with boys help a lot to grow up they give advices they like to help to share what they know but girls !!! only envy only coooking talks only materialism and stupid stuff ... nothing to do nothing interesting

[zucchero]

my problem is I can't understand myself and always myself surprises me I can't even trust myself anymore myself is my first ennemy ... who has a solution please post it coz I need your help

[Sadinne]

my problem is I can't understand myself and always myself surprises me I can't even trust myself anymore myself is my first ennemy ... who has a solution please post it coz I need your help

If I were you, I wouldn't worry too much about this, we've all been there before, the "I don't understand myself, what do I want? What's my goal in life" it's completely natural to feel this way, but you should never say that you're your own enemy

Hating yourself, or acting with yourself as if there was someone else in you isn't the solution, you and yourself are one, and you should try to make the best of it

Here's a trick I used to do (And I still do it) when I'm upset, go to somewhere where you're alone and no one is there to disturb you, pick up a pen and a paper and write...Don't ask me "Write what?" just write, and after a while you'll realize you're writing your heart out on that paper, and you'll find out new things about yourself you didn't even know before

You should know that you don't have to know "Who you are" right now, people spend their whole lives trying to find the answer to this question, and you're still so young and have so much ahead of you, don't complicate things for you yourself, God created you for a reason and a purpose in this life that you'll figure out in the right time

You're a beautiful person, and you should have faith in yourself and in your capacities no matter what, you need to find strength in yourself,and I am sure you will

[Sadinne]

yes that what I like in boys and friendship with boys help a lot to grow up they give advices they like to help to share what they know but girls !!! only envy only coooking talks only materialism and stupid stuff ... nothing to do nothing interesting

Totally >< but you know how it is in our community, you can't keep hanging out with guys only, or rumors will spread around about you --" ...It sucks I know xD

But you know, not all girls are this bad, sooner or later you'll find some girls you'll actually enjoy talking to, and who'll have the same interests as you..Just look closer =p

[CANIM]

honestly honestly I don't care about what people says in my back even though I 've never heard something nasty or unpleased about me just because with boys I am more seriouse and respectful, with girls I am more hypocrite I always tell what I don't think , to look polite and kind, but sometimes I dare say what I properly think just to feel relieved and regret it after ...

[CANIM]

hey sadine it's your turn now , tell us "as a high school student" wich kind of problems are you facing , we are here to help !!! don't be shy

[Sadinne]

Well, I don't have "People" problems, cause well..I don't care about anyone, and I act the same way you do, I love that feeling when someone comes over and they're so nice to me while they were talking about me just a minute ago, and I'm here like smiling and pretending that I believe them and that I have no idea about it xD

I think the main problems I have in my life, are my messed up relationship with my familly (except my dad) and the fact that I'm freaking out about my bac next year, especially cause I have a HUGE math issue T_T

[SiliaOnly]

Well, I don't have "People" problems, cause well..I don't care about anyone, and I act the same way you do, I love that feeling when someone comes over and they're so nice to me while they were talking about me just a minute ago, and I'm here like smiling and pretending that I believe them and that I have no idea about it xD

I think the main problems I have in my life, are my messed up relationship with my familly (except my dad) and the fact that I'm freaking out about my bac next year, especially cause I have a HUGE math issue T_T



concerning your messed up relashioship with your family members I advise you to try to understand their behaviour, instead of taking it as constant habit take it as a consequence of some conditions, I mean if your brother or sister always bothers you or says you the thing that you don't want to hear, put yourself out of the situation and tell yourself if I was a third person how would I see all this, when you take a step out of yourself you will be less desapointed toward your brother or sister, because you will find them some excuses and you will be able to control the situation because you have understand the situation in all its aspects , otherwise when you get criticized and you stay close to yourself you will always refuse that critic, but if you stand just in the middle between yourself and your family members (not that easy) you will find out that no one critisize you if you were perfect and there are always a direct or undirect reason for that critic, just say they are 50 % right and I am 50% right

concerning your bac , my dear don't fear failure, don't think to failure at all, if you have and must think about bac think about university and what would you like to do as studies, and try to connect each branch of study with a module you are studying now or next year, be more clever and don't waste your time and energy thinking to bad things that haven't even accure in your life

[SiliaOnly]

I have never pay attention to green-eye
I am not the one who says that one envy me or that other one wish me bad thing
I know allah recit envy in the holly coran
but I don't see any use to suspect people and the most thing I hate is when ppl comes and start complaining I am envied I am envied
to be honest I don't want to be like them , and I refuse to admit that bad things accuring in my life are due to green-eye
but I can't explain them otherwise
?

[CANIM]

I have never pay attention to green-eye
I am not the one who says that one envy me or that other one wish me bad thing
I know allah recit envy in the holly coran
but I don't see any use to suspect people and the most thing I hate is when ppl comes and start complaining I am envied I am envied
to be honest I don't want to be like them , and I refuse to admit that bad things accuring in my life are due to green-eye
but I can't explain them otherwise
?



at this time I don't know better and efficient way to chase envy and jealousy than repeating instantanly allah names during the day ,

[Sadinne]

I have never pay attention to green-eye
I am not the one who says that one envy me or that other one wish me bad thing
I know allah recit envy in the holly coran
but I don't see any use to suspect people and the most thing I hate is when ppl comes and start complaining I am envied I am envied
to be honest I don't want to be like them , and I refuse to admit that bad things accuring in my life are due to green-eye
but I can't explain them otherwise
?



I'm not the kind of person, who's like "People envy me, that's why this or that is happening to me" either, but trust me sooner or later you'll meet people who'll truely make you feel like they envy you, it's like...They can't hide it, it's just so obvious
Green eye, might be the reason for some things in your life, and it might not be
I don't know what kind of bad things are going on in your life right now, but I believe that if you haven't done anything wrong that god might be punishing you for, then maybe it's just a test from god, to see how strong your faith is, and if you'll seek his strength to fight against your problems, or if you'll just go the wrong way
And Allah a3lam you know xD

[CANIM]

I wanted to help a friend I tried to be close to him but he refused to confess what is making his heart heavy, I know that he is suffering and want to relieve his soul through talking to someone but he didn't, I worry about him because he stand by my side in hard time, and because he is kind and devoted to his friends, how could I push him to talk about what hurts him

[7med]

help only those who asked for your help! if you want to help by force you risk to deplease the one you wanted to help