Tears

[أم بدر الدين]

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Tears is the outlets of the over-flow feelings of Human Beings, the outlet of the moments we feel the pressure reachs it's very heights, the outlet of pure things inside that may be hurt or stolen by the hands of dear people or the strangers....

I remember, when i was young, my father told me : "Daughter , try not to use the chance always, because it may hurt!!, u'd better try to use the opportunities given to you even if they're small or simple" i heared these words , but i didn't recognize what they mean 'till the mean-age

May be i lost alot of joy in my life to do the right things which had to be done from along while, but really i'am happy not to be that person anymore who loses everything simply because she thinks she's alone in a world full of lies

Dear friends, i'am writing these words with my eyes full of tears and bleed for my star. because the mess of things causes the invention of the jewels inside which may be hidden or covered by the black and sad days we've passed by

I just wanna say! tears are not bad! they woke me up once at the time of my need! but they are not essentially in all day-long circumstances.

I hope you all understood what i meant by my words and to pray for me and for us to do what we have to do not what we wanna do God bless us

From ypur sister malika

[أحلام جزائري]

Salam Malika ....I myself have understood every word you've said maybe more than you con imagine.....as if you said what inside me the only diffirence ...... I can't say it and can't cry...............good night

[hairless17]

Welcome Ahlam jazaery
Feel at home
Wonderful ; Malika

[أحلام جزائري]

thanks a lot hairless17 its very kind of you.........

[hairless17]

You are doing very well in the forum

[أحلام جزائري]

... i don't know who exactly you mean ....any way not much than You dear brother

[hairless17]

... i don't know who exactly you mean ....any way not much than You dear brother

I mean you Ahlem jazaery

[أحلام جزائري]

thank you for every word

[hairless17]

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[صاحبة السمو الفكري]

SALAM ALIKOUM
really .it was awsome..what i like in ur golden words....your father's words..they were full of wisdome
u are right..tears can be good foe eyes as sport if we can say..but not alwayse

[smart]

Thanks my dear malika
You're always giving us the best words to be the best

[hairless17]

A wonderful participation , soft heart

[أم بدر الدين]

You really make me happy,this topic seems to be a pleasure for you,your comments are all so deep and meaningful
Thank you all

[hairless17]

You are welcome

[أم بدر الدين]

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Happy to see you all

[hairless17]

Thanks for the flowers

[أم بدر الدين]

You are welcome brother

[hairless17]

Happiness

Abd Er-Rahman III of Spain:

I have now reigned about 50 years in victory or peace, beloved by my subjects, dreaded by my enemies, and respected by my allies. Riches and honors, power and pleasure, have waited on my call, nor does any earthly blessing appear to have been wanting to my felicity. In this situation, I have diligently numbered the days of pure and genuine happiness which have fallen to my lot. They amount to fourteen.

[أم بدر الدين]

wwwwwwwwwwwwaw...a very nice addition

[hairless17]

And there is more to come from others

[أم بدر الدين]

You are right....thank you

[hairless17]

How tears are formed scientifically ?.0

[أم بدر الدين]

Why do we cry? Which chemical procedures run off thereby?


When we become upset, our brains and bodies overreact and work overtime, producing chemicals and hormones. Crying helps eliminate t,hese extra chemicals that we don't need, in the form of tears. These tears are formed in tiny glands present in the upper eyelids of our eyes, called lachrymal glands.


Scientifically, emotional tears contain high levels of manganese and a chemical called prolactin.


As our tears flow, they sooth our sadness or distress by disposing of these chemical agents. That is why generally, we feel calmer or more r e f r e c h e d after crying, because the tears get rid of these hormones that are produced when we are sad, happy, or distressed.


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[hairless17]

Always specil
Thanks

[أم بدر الدين]

You are welcome

[hairless17]

What are the kinds of crying ?1

[أم بدر الدين]

What do you mean ????????? 0

[hairless17]

Sorry , I meant what are the kinds of tears ?1

[أم بدر الدين]

Kinds of tears

Actually, there are three kinds of tears. BASAL tears lubricate your eyeball. Your eyeball is really not very smooth, so without tears to smooth it over, you wouldn't be able to see very sharply. Various tear glands produce about 5-10 ounces of basal tears daily. These tears flow over the eye and into the LACHRYMAL ducts in the inside corners of your eyes and then into your nasal cavity.
REFLEX tears protect your eyes against irritants, such as onions, and foreign objects or blows.
Now get this. There's a big difference between EMOTIONAL tears and these other kinds of tears. Emotional tears contain 20-25 percent more protein, including various hormones! So what does this mean? WE DON'T KNOW, BUT IT IS VERY INTERESTING.
Actually, some scientists think tears are a way for the body to get rid of wastes, as is sweating or defecation.

[hairless17]

Thannnnnnnnnnnnks

[أم بدر الدين]

You are wellllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllcome

[hairless17]

Can we stop tears ?0

[أم بدر الدين]

Yes ;please close the topic

[hairless17]

Why to close it ?0

[أم بدر الدين]

I ve understood by your sentence**Can we stop tears ?0** that you want to close the topic hhhhhha
Sometimes my brain stops working
Do you mean **can we stop crying? 0

[hairless17]

Yes that is what I meant
Can we stop our tears ?0

[hairless17]

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[أم بدر الدين]

I think that sometimes we can stop our tears and the experience of actors shows that...they cry when they are asked and they can stop suddenly

[hairless17]

Surely sister Thnaks

[أم بدر الدين]

You are welcome

[hairless17]

Do we cry when we want ?0

[أم بدر الدين]

Never;sometimes we deeply want to cry but we don't find the courage to do it and sometimes we cry without any reason and even we see it a crazy act

[hairless17]

Why are there people who cry whenever they want

[أم بدر الدين]

They seem to be actors,they exaggerate i think and they are used to act not only in crying but in other things too

[hairless17]

What are these thing s
not only in crying but in other things too

[أم بدر الدين]

What are these thing s

This means that their whole life is based on acting;in their feelings ,happiness and sadness and this type of people is too difficult to live with

[hairless17]

Ok and they are are becoming in big numbers

[أم بدر الدين]

Sure ,they are dominating our society

[hairless17]

What should we do ?0

[أم بدر الدين]

We have to avoid them since we know how they are acting .....Thank you

[hairless17]

But how to know them ?0

[أم بدر الدين]

It is sooo easy since you are not an actor like them you will guess by yourself that they are acting ,by this way you will feel that it is impossible to deal with them

[hairless17]

Thanks for the advice

[أم بدر الدين]

You are welcome

[hairless17]

How to invest tears in Ramadhan ? 0

[أم بدر الدين]

Good tears will give us new hearts and a new energy to erase all our mistakes
It is the best opportunity to cry to obtain God's forgiveness

[hairless17]

Thanks sister

[أم بدر الدين]

You are welcomeeeeeeeeee

[hairless17]

Does crying bring forgiveness

[أم بدر الدين]

Sure it does but if these tears are expressing our regrets and sadness about all the mistakes we 've done

[hairless17]

Are tears enough for forgiveness ?0

[أم بدر الدين]

Sure they are not 'cause tears must express what we really feel and they represent our hope to change our lives to the best
Forgiveness comes after our deep regret and people express this with tears

[hairless17]

Thanks sister

[أم بدر الدين]

God bless you

[hairless17]

Can we say bitter tears

[أم بدر الدين]

Yes this expression is often heard in songs
Bitter tears express a deep sadness and a harmfull result of a very sad life or experience

[hairless17]

Thanks sister

[أم بدر الدين]

God bless you and you are welcome