Make your Husband Happy

[أم بدر الدين]

To make your husband happy you have to apply these points and you will see the difference.

1. Beautiful Reception. After returning from work, school, travel, or whatever has separated you
2. Sweet Speech and Enchanting Invitations3. Friendliness and Recreation
4. Games and Distractions5. Assistance in the Household6. Consultation (Shurah) especifically in family matters7. Visiting Others
8. Conduct During Travel
9. Financial Support

10. Smelling Good and Physical Beautification
11. Intercourse
12. Guarding Privacy
13. Aiding in the Obedience to Allah
14. Showing Respect for her Family and Friends

15. (Islamic) Training & Admonition. This includes:
16. Admirable Jealousy
17. Patience and Mildness
Pardoning and Appropriate Censure .18

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[hairless17]

thanks malika
i told them to my wife and she liked them very much

[أم بدر الدين]

so i am late i didn't write them at time

[hairless17]

No Not At All She Already Has Some Of Them

[أم بدر الدين]

thank you very much and good luck
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[hairless17]

it will be good with your advice

[أم بدر الدين]

look sir to be honest i have to tell you the truth..i've noticed that plenty of good topics are not taken into concideration and only few members aply after reading these important topics besides some topics which are not realy important are read a big number of members**this happens in all the other forums and it is not only my opinion..thank you sir and sorry to say it but this is the truth.

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[hairless17]

we have to encourage good topics
it is our role to put here all what is good and interesting

[أم بدر الدين]

i think that we still need to be honest more and more and really encourage what needs to be encouraged otherwise we will loose alot of things..thank you

[hairless17]

you are one of the persons that must be encouraged

[smart]

each member should give his opinion
we have to get the best topics

[hairless17]

you are right smart
waiting for your opinion

[أم بدر الدين]

thank you hairless and you are right smart...

[wafa fati]

Thank you very much Maliika pour ce sujet ;esperant lire aussi " Make your wife happy"

[hairless17]

welcome among us fati
please use english only

[أم بدر الدين]

how are you fati thank you for joining us but this piece of advice is for husbands and wives and if every woman makes her husband happy this means that she will have a life full of peace and happiness...
listen to the boss he said no more french...

[hairless17]

thanks ahlem
the happiness of the husband is the one of the wife

[أم بدر الدين]

sure we must be logic to live in peace and hapiness

[hairless17]

sure we must be logic to live in piece and hapiness

di you mean
peace

[أم بدر الدين]

sure i mean peace not ---a piece of......--- sorry for the mistake and thank you ..

[hairless17]

you are welcome
don't be angry I like checking mistakes

[أم بدر الدين]

no at all i am not angry but i am hungry....ha ha ha

[hairless17]

have this mexican meal

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[أم بدر الدين]

thank you but you make me so sad because i can t eat it

[hairless17]

sorry if I could I would send it to you

[أم بدر الدين]

thank you as if it is done

[hairless17]

let's return to the subject
How can a person make his wife happy ?

[أم بدر الدين]

HOW TO MAKE YOUR WIFE HAPPY


SHOW APPRECIATION


Above all, every woman needs to be shown appreciation and acknowledgment for her talents, abilities and endeavors
LISTENING

Always be willing to listen, with genuine interest. Her thoughts, ideas and opinions are important to her. They should be important to you as well.
ALLOW HER SPACE

We all need our personal space. Allowing your wife time to herself, is a good way for her to regenerate energy so she too, is able to be at her best for you
WRITE A NOTE

Every once in a while, writes a simple love note and place it where she'll see it first thing in the morning or where it might surprise her in the middle of her day.

FAITHFULNESS

It goes without saying a husband should always be faithful to his wife.
COMPROMISE

Compromise is the cornerstone of a good marriage. No one person should always be making the decisions. They should be made together.
TOKENS OF LOVE
What woman doesn't enjoy receiving flowers or some small token of love, especially if they come out of the blue? Simple gestures are very inexpensive, yet powerful and can do so much to brighten up your spouse's life.

[hairless17]

thanks
I really need them

[أم بدر الدين]

Never Mind And Good Night..

[hairless17]

good night see you tomorrow

[أم بدر الدين]

where are you...i can t see you among us..dont say that you are on holidays

[hairless17]

no I am not on holidays
I have just moved to a new appart

[أم بدر الدين]

ok i understand...good luck with the new neibours

[hairless17]

they are very kind
they welcomed me with couscous and meat

[أم بدر الدين]

you have the chance ...they gave you couscous with meat mmmmmmmm
but you gave me the other day couscous without meat for my guests...you are not generous..ha ha ha

[hairless17]

You are invited to share this couscous with me
You and your family if you want

[أم بدر الدين]

Thank you sir..and i accept the invitation

[hairless17]

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Take this till you come at my home

[أم بدر الدين]

Your invitation seems to be delicious. thank you .
I'll enjoy it with my family..

[hairless17]

I will send you the dessert if you don't mind

[Dark Butterfly]

nice topic

thanx sis for sharing us

i enjoyed reading it

[أم بدر الدين]

How are you dark butterfly..?I missed you
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And i am waiting the dessert hairless.

[smart]

Waw...........you all enjoyed eating couscous without inviting me
Hey....sir i hope that you love your new appartement

[hairless17]

Welcome back dark butterfly
We missed you
Where have you been ?0
Smarty :You are invited, too.0
My new appartment is larger and nicer
It has got four rooms

[smart]

good
you are feeling comfortable
when my family moved to new appartment i felt so sad coz i had so much great moments there and so much friends
even the new one was much bigger than the other

[أم بدر الدين]

Waw...........you all enjoyed eating couscous without inviting me
Hey....sir i hope that you love your new appartement
Sure i accept you with me but don't touch my meat..It's mine
HA HA HA

[أم بدر الدين]

good
you are feeling comfortable
when my family moved to new appartment i felt so sad coz i had so much great moments there and so much friends
even the new one was much bigger than the other
Sure dear you feel sad but with time you will forget .good luck dear

[hairless17]

I am not feeling sad becaus I have not moved so far
My new appart is 300 m far from the old

[أم بدر الدين]

You always have the chance,may ALLAH protect you

[hairless17]

Thanks for DO3AA

[أم بدر الدين]

You are welcome brother

[hairless17]

Why do most wives feel threaten by the second wife ? eventhough the hhusband is not thinking of it

[smart]

Sure i accept you with me but don't touch my meat..It's mine
HA HA HA

Don't be afraid malika
I don't like meat much and i won't eat yours

[smart]

You should ask Malika
She is a wife

[hairless17]

Yes i am asking wives
And you young girls you can give your opinion

[smart]

I think that they are always afraid that some day her husband will leave her and go to another one espacially if the wife doesn't work
That's my opinion

[أم بدر الدين]

I am never afraid and this idea has never come to my mind because my husband is very happy with me...
I am sure that he will not do it***i hope so*** 0

[smart]

I also hope so
Malika...........Mr,hairless is asking why wives get this idea in their minds

[أم بدر الدين]

Frankly i don't know since i 've not this idea in my mind i can't answer to that question dear Smart

[smart]

Sorry sir
You should ask your wife

[أم بدر الدين]

Sorry sir
You should ask your wife

You are very intelligent
He really has to ask his wife

[hairless17]

I did not get any answer

[أم بدر الدين]

Sorry but wives do it to see if their husbands still love them

[Dark Butterfly]

perhaps she think that you will not treat her the same
as the second wife


i dont know

but
for my side
i wont my husband
---if i get married-----
to be mine
only mine

i dont like the idea of sharing him
with another woman
noooo way

[hairless17]

But how does Islam treat this subject?0

[أم بدر الدين]

Islam is so clear that the man has the right to have more than one wife

[smart]

If islams gives you the right to marry four wives it doesn't mean that you have to do it
It is so difficult to be fair between them
Does it mean that you are thinking about it
Please don't ...............you will break her heart

[hairless17]

No not at all
I am so happy with her and my kids
I want just to know how women do think

[أم بدر الدين]

If islams gives you the right to marry four wives it doesn't mean that you have to do it
It is so difficult to be fair between them
Does it mean that you are thinking about it
Please don't ...............you will break her heart

Don't panic dear you have to put in mind that we have to obey to our GOD in everything even if they hurt
Life will give you much more lessons that will make you hard and courageous

[أم بدر الدين]

No not at all
I am so happy with her and my kids
I want just to know how women do think


May ALLAH protect your family

[smart]

Iam very sure that iam going to learn these lessons
Thank you dear ..............i wish for you happily ever after with your husband and kids
Malika..............i would love to know about your kids...........girls.....boys their ages
Please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[smart]

No not at all
I am so happy with her and my kids
I want just to know how women do think

Thank you so much
Take care of her and your boys and you will live happily ever after

[أم بدر الدين]

Iam very sure that iam going to learn these lessons
Thank you dear ..............i wish for you happily ever after with your husband and kids
Malika..............i would love to know about your kids...........girls.....boys their ages
Please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BADREDDINE 11 years old a very nice boy he is too kind and all the people love him
he is a pupil in the C.E.M
ASMA and NOUR E LHOUDA TWINS OF 5 ..They are the jewels of my heart ,they are intelligent and very calm
May ALLAH the almighty protect them

[hairless17]

BADREDDINE 11 years old a very nice boy he is too kind and all the people love him
he is a pupil in the C.E.M
ASMA and NOUR E LHOUDA TWINS OF 5 ..They are the jewels of my heart ,they are intelligent and very calm
May ALLAH the almighty protect them

May Allah protect your children

[smart]

BADREDDINE 11 years old a very nice boy he is too kind and all the people love him
he is a pupil in the C.E.M
ASMA and NOUR E LHOUDA TWINS OF 5 ..They are the jewels of my heart ,they are intelligent and very calm
May ALLAH the almighty protect them

May ALLAH protect them for you and keep them always taking care of you
Thank you sweety for answering

[أم بدر الدين]

You are welcome dear

[hairless17]

you are all welcome

[أم بدر الدين]

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[hairless17]

And we are happier

[smart]

really..............!!!!0

[hairless17]

Yes , it is reality