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hhhh . i am always expecting the best from you Spy4you ... and you never stopped surprising me brother ...
the Topic is interesting but i do not think people would be courageous as you are (including me )
hhhh . i am always expecting the best from you Spy4you ... and you never stopped surprising me brother ...
the Topic is interesting but i do not think people would be courageous as you are (including me )
shall we start with yours?
this is fair:19:
mine is complicated ... you can say a story that can happen all the time ... i will tell you mine :)
it started years ago in 2006 ... i had the chance to meet a student who had changed his class to ours ... you can say he changed his school (he did not like it at all ) he seemed first like nothing interests him in the new school ... he was not from those you see always in the black board writing , drawing or doing anything ... you might see him just cleaning the board ... although he took the first tables , he was from those who are looking for just passing the year quietly ... we met at a drawing session hhhhh ... i remember he did not finish his painting and he asked one of the girls to finish it up (he was lazy(so .. none of the girls wanted to do so ... but i accepted ... (kind of simple good intention i had ) but his needs were getting kind of getting bigger and bigger ... my copybooks , my drawings , my everything .... i was kind of discovering something new , kind of trying to be popular since i was not ''beautifull''i had no chance to be ...
As i became a source of getting your job done , i became somehow a friend ... and i liked it (i had special feelings)
if you think i should carry on .. i will but if people found it stupid i will just stop sorry guys :(
mine is complicated ... you can say a story that can happen all the time ... i will tell you mine :)
it started years ago in 2006 ... i had the chance to meet a student who had changed his class to ours ... you can say he changed his school (he did not like it at all ) he seemed first like nothing interests him in the new school ... he was not from those you see always in the black board writing , drawing or doing anything ... you might see him just cleaning the board ... although he took the first tables , he was from those who are looking for just passing the year quietly ... we met at a drawing session hhhhh ... i remember he did not finish his painting and he asked one of the girls to finish it up (he was lazy(so .. none of the girls wanted to do so ... but i accepted ... (kind of simple good intention i had ) but his needs were getting kind of getting bigger and bigger ... my copybooks , my drawings , my everything .... i was kind of discovering something new , kind of trying to be popular since i was not ''beautifull''i had no chance to be ...
As i became a source of getting your job done , i became somehow a friend ... and i liked it (i had special feelings)
if you think i should carry on .. i will but if people found it stupid i will just stop sorry guys :(
im with you, just follow you heart
carry on
well , as our dayly meetings went always fun , full of jokes and happy times (in the class) ... i never suspected that what i have inside was ''love'' i was just feeling the moment and not trying to define things ... it became to me an obligation , something that i wake up everyday for ... but he did not have the same thing ... he was just so happy to find someone doing his work ... (i felt the opposit) about the friends around ... they noticed nothing .. cause we were just chating always but nothing special ... days passed and things developed in only Zineb's mind ... the first exams went on and i was gettin good grades i always was in the second rank of students ... i was getting 14 , 13 that is it ... whenever i got good grades ... he feels happy ( i did not know why first)
he cheats , and he asked me to help ... (i always found excuses for not helping him ..but later i came to accept )
i feel how bad i was ... but i thought helping him was in order not to loose what i thought was pure and mutual ...
In the second Exams of the year . i decided to not help him ...although he insisted and tried his best to convince me
i was like : look , work on your own and leave me alone !
doing that cost me a lot and i do not want to say it
well , as our dayly meetings went always fun , full of jokes and happy times (in the class) ... i never suspected that what i have inside was ''love'' i was just feeling the moment and not trying to define things ... it became to me an obligation , something that i wake up everyday for ... but he did not have the same thing ... he was just so happy to find someone doing his work ... (i felt the opposit) about the friends around ... they noticed nothing .. cause we were just chating always but nothing special ... days passed and things developed in only Zineb's mind ... the first exams went on and i was gettin good grades i always was in the second rank of students ... i was getting 14 , 13 that is it ... whenever i got good grades ... he feels happy ( i did not know why first)
he cheats , and he asked me to help ... (i always found excuses for not helping him ..but later i came to accept )
i feel how bad i was ... but i thought helping him was in order not to loose what i thought was pure and mutual ...
In the second Exams of the year . i decided to not help him ...although he insisted and tried his best to convince me
i was like : look , work on your own and leave me alone !
doing that cost me a lot and i do not want to say it
first you must do what satisfy allah, a friend who ask your help by bad way is not a true friend,
i'll back soon zineb for more discussion
thanks spy4you ... iit is not easy to say the bad things i did ... i am doing that just to show my mistakes .. maybe someone reading my story would do the right thing ...
i am sorry if i am doing wrong by telling you this ... just whenever you (guys) feel like bored or something just tell me
hi sist i red u're story and if u want my advice u have to make sure that he loves u too by some how cause love from one side is very difficult honey
i have story too someday i'll tell it but mine is very very very long and complicates so i hope u'll like my advice
another thing can i know how old are u just for curiosity
I am 21 years old now ... i will carry on if none has an objection on that
thanks spy4you ... iit is not easy to say the bad things i did ... i am doing that just to show my mistakes .. maybe someone reading my story would do the right thing ...
i am sorry if i am doing wrong by telling you this ... just whenever you (guys) feel like bored or something just tell me
you need to release what is going on in your mind and heart to feel better and comfort
that's the point
we need to help each other
you're like our sister
just relax
I am 21 years old now ... i will carry on if none has an objection on that
i'm really sorry sist but i didn't mean it that way i asked for u're age just to know u more
sorry again it's just miss understanding
I am 21 years old now ... i will carry on if none has an objection on that
carry on please we're listening
ok then :)
having not helped him during the last exams ... we never met after since it was summer and students separated
next year was 2007 our last in secondary school , we all students decided that it is the last year and the nightmares of Bac were spreading all around .. i had some confidence that i will pas it like all exams ... i even thought i would be one of the best students
the scholar year started and we were seperated in two different classes (i could not bare it ) so i decided to be close ... i was stupid and everything important to me was to be close (i thought to myself ... he might have learned something )
my changing the class was kind of good news for him ... he planned to revenge me since i did not help when asked ... two days from my changing the class ... he sent two of his friends and asked them to sit behind me in the class ..... i heard the worst words a girl could ever hear ....hhhhh i remember the time .the session , everything ...and none noticed what i was getting through ... the teacher is busy doing his duty... the students with the teacher ... and me getting insulted .. he said as i heard : ''i hear no crys ...'' ... i want to see tears ''
hhhhh i got back home kind of unable to speak ... i barely could say what happened to me ...
the two boys were puniched hardly ... but he , he got away with it ...
months passed and i was like forgetting everything
ok then :)
having not helped him during the last exams ... we never met after since it was summer and students separated
next year was 2007 our last in secondary school , we all students decided that it is the last year and the nightmares of Bac were spreading all around .. i had some confidence that i will pas it like all exams ... i even thought i would be one of the best students
the scholar year started and we were seperated in two different classes (i could not bare it ) so i decided to be close ... i was stupid and everything important to me was to be close (i thought to myself ... he might have learned something )
my changing the class was kind of good news for him ... he planned to revenge me since i did not help when asked ... two days from my changing the class ... he sent two of his friends and asked them to sit behind me in the class ..... i heard the worst words a girl could ever hear ....hhhhh i remember the time .the session , everything ...and none noticed what i was getting through ... the teacher is busy doing his duty... the students with the teacher ... and me getting insulted .. he said as i heard : ''i hear no crys ...'' ... i want to see tears ''
hhhhh i got back home kind of unable to speak ... i barely could say what happened to me ...
the two boys were puniched hardly ... but he , he got away with it ...
months passed and i was like forgetting everything
this kind of boys are untrusty
i cant blame you, but i can advice you a golden advice
getting friends loving you is by your morals,ethics and your attitudes, you are in the right way since you prevented yourself to help him cheating, you could control yourself in spite of love and that is important
dont care, if you left something bad, you'll get something good
trust me
just keep with your principles and conscience you'll never be lost
thank you
you see , sometimes even bad things can be forgot ... i do not know what was i thinking of ... i was like obssessed ... all the time thinking of the way i look ... (i am good , i am bad ,, this color fits , this does not ...) i stopped thinking of school as a priority and at the same time i studied ... i had the intention to study ... i was not lazy or forgetting my studies totaly ... but my problem was the focuss ... i was like always day dreaming .. thinking about my moves , the words i said ... what does he like ... what did he said ... did he try to say something ... did he meant this or that when he said that
by time and change ... he came to realize that i had spcial feelings inside .... (we still were not speaking to each other()
i do not know one of the girls felt that in me and told him directly ... besides he tried to make me jalous and noticed that in a way or in another ... after ages (for me) he started like trying to come close ...
girls noticed that , boys noticed that everyone knew now .... that finaly R likes zineb ....
and now u don't have any feelings for him
he started crossing my way , sitting in my place , taking my stuff, sending me oral messages , blocking my way ... doing everything to make me somehow speak to him ... he made fun of himself , he even said things before his friends ... it was like dayly surprises ... i was feeling shy and kind of stupid i never replied but i was happy ... i cannot deny it ... i thought i was kind of noticed finally
after months it was the end of the year and i choke his hand as kind of peace between us ...
the result of my Bac was 8 i officially lost my BAC ... i cried and cried and cried ,,, and blamed myself for my loosing i blamed every bloody memory i made ...
now that i took a lesson .. 2008 was the year both of us spent in another school ... we met in the days of BAC exams but i never left my eyes even try to take a glance ... after that i won ... and it was like wow i made it ...
I will answer that Bac 2010 just wait ..
and now u don't have any feelings for him
good question, waiting for the answer
well , after my success we met ... as he works in a place near , i place that i can go to , a place that girls visit most of the time ... we spoke like old friends and he wished best wishes for me .... but asked me why did i choose the thing that he always hated :''English'' i said that was the field i like
in 2009 he won his BAc and he is studying in Algiers not with his Bac in an institute ...
speaking about now which is the most important thing
we meet but rarely ... each five or 4 months (actulay i make coincidences) whenver we meet it feels always like the first time ... even when i am at collge ... i cannot stop thinking about him ... whenever i feel deep sorrow i remember him ... i ask myslef dayly ... where is he ... what is he doing ... when we meet ... fever makes my hands wo warm an shaky... and i just cannot stop it ...
i dream about him , i just cannot forget ...all i wish is ... being around .. even just watching
only if i could just watch him ... from far away
:) thank you guys for your support and patience ... i know knowing details is not enjoyable .. sorry if i was boring
i just wanted to share my story
sorry again
i wish the time could gother you
in peace and love with your friend
not just to see him but also to talk
you deserve goodness for your heart
best wishes for you
thank you for sharing us
see, it doesnt require courage but desire
i hope you feel better now
Thanks brother spy4you .. i am happy and not loosing hope :)
thanks for all of you
Thanks brother spy4you .. i am happy and not loosing hope :)
thanks for all of you
that's the purpose of the idea
it's to feel comfort
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2010-10-02, 18:24
hiiii sis and bro:mh92:
......Alhamdoulillah
i don't have any emotional problems
good luck
......Alhamdoulillah
i don't have any emotional problems
good luck
elhamdolilah that's good
i wish you're happy
Spy4you did you notice the number of the times the topic was reviewed ! i think it is striking in comparison wit some subjects hhhhhh curiosity :)
for those who would like just to watch i say ... thanks for scrolling the mouse to see our reply hhhh good luck guys
Spy4you did you notice the number of the times the topic was reviewed ! i think it is striking in comparison wit some subjects hhhhhh curiosity :)
for those who would like just to watch i say ... thanks for scrolling the mouse to see our reply hhhh good luck guys
yes, i can touch that, i think people like such subjects of emotions and social problems, curiosity i guess, but you are special girl and your story attract many people
it's me who has to thank you
you're really top-notch
without your ideas i would not be .. thanks for complementing on me (i think some people hate me now in the forum
but i think admitting my fault is better then seeing only the good side of one no ?
brother Spy4you you are the best
elhamdolilah that's good
i wish you're happy
!...why not
thank you
WEll , i think most of people are happy ... they have no emotional problems i suppose do not you think so Spy4you ?i wish you are dear friends
WEll , i think most of people are happy ... they have no emotional problems i suppose do not you think so Spy4you ?i wish you are dear friends
yes, it seems so, or they cant reveal their secrets
if the reason they are happy, that's great
but i think not
thank you
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